I think I figured it out... *insert personal stuff from college*
I was *almost/kinda* the "other" woman in a relationship once. I was introduced to this guy a month after he started dating someone else. And me and him just clicked like I've never clicked with anyone else before or since. Through the course of the semester, we got kind of close and before long I realized he was treating more like a girlfriend than his actual girlfriend. Then one night he walked me out and his girlfriend was waiting for him in his room as he pulled me close and told me he loved me. After that, I kind of severed ties with him and not in a good way... I didn't want to be the "other" woman.... I think that's why seeing things like that hits me hard. Even if I *knew* that what Tony thought was going on wasn't going on... I just think about what/how the girlfriend would have felt had she known and I think she did actually...
*end TMI on Kayla*
*gives Tony more hugs and slaps because he's grinning stupidly over the last ones*
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on Oct. 17th, 2009 04:10 pm (UTC)I was *almost/kinda* the "other" woman in a relationship once. I was introduced to this guy a month after he started dating someone else. And me and him just clicked like I've never clicked with anyone else before or since. Through the course of the semester, we got kind of close and before long I realized he was treating more like a girlfriend than his actual girlfriend. Then one night he walked me out and his girlfriend was waiting for him in his room as he pulled me close and told me he loved me. After that, I kind of severed ties with him and not in a good way... I didn't want to be the "other" woman.... I think that's why seeing things like that hits me hard. Even if I *knew* that what Tony thought was going on wasn't going on... I just think about what/how the girlfriend would have felt had she known and I think she did actually...
*end TMI on Kayla*
*gives Tony more hugs and slaps because he's grinning stupidly over the last ones*