Absolutely - it's the personality and presence and not any of the costuming. Gibbs doesn't need to dress up to be a dom - he IS one.

And yeah re what happened in SGA. There was a whole lot of pettiness going on there, and some jealousy. I was shocked by it though more than anything else. Shocked by the mindset and the approach to other people and to fanfic. It is not an approach that I share.

Thanks for your comments and support :-)